Toast of Leeds Photography
Toast of Leeds Photography

A Warm Welcome to TogetherNess

Creative wedding planning for modern couples

Delivering inspired weddings across South West Wales

Hello! I’m Ness. I specialise in alternative, sustainable and totally inspiring weddings in the wild and beautiful landscapes of Wales.

I work with you as much or as little as you need, to create weddings and events that break with tradition and are as unique as you are. I take huge pride knowing that each wedding I deliver is entirely individual to my clients, so that your day is full of your own personality and style.

Whether it’s a festival style wedding weekend with hundreds of guests or a quiet handfasting ceremony in a secret ancient woodland, I’m here to bring your ideas to life.

Toast of Leeds Photography

Getting it right

We know that planning a wedding can be difficult logistically, financially and with a time constraint, that’s why we are really passionate about listening to your needs carefully and exactly.


That might mean you require a fully immersive experience, where we advise, guide and walk with you as you plan your day.

Or it might look like a few consultations so that we can turn up and run the day behind the scenes leaving you to relax and make memories, safe in the knowledge that everything is being taken care of. 


Whatever you need, we are here for you. 

Beautiful Wales

Wild, untamed, raw and ancient - Wales is the perfect location for a wedding celebration full of individuality.


Secret beaches for sipping champagne, ancient woodlands full of history to explore and the sprawling mountains in between, our team are incredibly passionate about this unique part of Britain they know so well. 


As is becoming ever clearer, Wales is home to some of the most talented artisans the British Isles has to offer. With locally grown and produced flowers and edibles, to hand-distilled drinks, bespoke wedding cakes and catering that can be tailored to any dietary need we are so fortunate to work with so many talented individuals.

Environmentally Minded

Passionate about preserving our natural world, we’re committed to tackling a throwaway culture in the events industry.


We work with artisan, local producers and suppliers and believe in reducing, repurposing, plastic free living.


Helping couples create inspired events that don't cost our earth is what we love to do!

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You are Unique

Building trusting relationships with our clients is our top priority. Weaving your individual style and tastes into your wedding is where we excel, and we’re so grateful to call so many of our previous client’s friends.

With a small but dedicated team, we are committed to making sure your wedding day, weekend, or even week-long event, flows seamlessly and speaks volumes about you. 

We are also strong believers in quality over quantity - by limiting the number of weddings we assist with each year we guarantee you a personal approach, and the time and dedication you need on your planning journey.


Call Ness to discuss what we can offer, or book a complimentary consultation to find out more.

"I cannot put in to words how thankful I am that I found Ness. I can honestly say that our wedding day would never have turned out as perfect as it did if wasn't for her amazing organisation, creativity and attention to detail.
From the very first conversation we had, Ness totally put me at ease and I knew I could trust her implicitly to help me make our vision a reality. 
Thank you Ness for helping us to achieve our Wedstock wedding we both dreamed of. Its clear to see that you love what you do by the care and thoughtfulness you put into it, and in turn, we loved having you to share our day with us"

Lauren and Barry.

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